How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 16.06.2025 20:35
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Is there anything wrong with me because I'm still single?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Have you been arrested or investigated?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
What I need from you?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
That's it for today.
Making more friends is a goal.
How did it feel to take your first gay BBC?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Is a man over 50 not married no kids a red flag?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Why don't we hear our own snoring?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Do older women know what they want?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
What is one thing you've learned from life?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What is the best music album of all time?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Does not procrastinate.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Is it okay or problematic to be both Black and gay in society in the 21st century?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
What does it feel like to "lose your looks" to age?
Do not set goals—set systems.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Ask yourself:
Procrastinates a lot.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.